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The Power Of Focus: How To Stop Going Through The Motions

Where is your attention when you're in the gym or at the table? Is it stuck on a far away goal, or dialed in on what you're doing? Settle down, pay attention, and enjoy yourself more while you train!

This year will mark the 14th year I've been strength training. Within the last three years, I've hit a few of my long-held strength goals, such as a 500-pound deadlift and being able to bench 225 pounds more than 10 times. My new best is 15 reps.

Last July, I began a different journey, which has improved my fitness mindset far more than any individual lifting achievement. I started meditating.

Believe me, this is not something I ever thought I'd be doing. But here I am, sitting by myself nearly every day, in silence, counting my breath. I used to scoff at people who did things like this, because I deemed it a monumental waste of time.

I've since changed my mind, and I'm glad I did. Over the ensuing months, I've written a lot about the concept of mindfulness on my personal blog, and I advocate mindfulness training for anyone who wants to enjoy training and eating more, and worry about them less. Now I'd like to give you some ideas of what it's like to be more mindful about your fitness and nutrition.

What is Mindfulness? ///

Have you ever noticed yourself doing a certain task, but find your mind in a completely different place? This is the opposite of mindfulness.

Imagine yourself driving. The last thing you're thinking about is how the steering wheel feels in your hand, the sounds you hear, or what is happening all around you. You struggle to fumble through your Facebook feed while changing the radio station. What about when you're on the phone with someone, but grocery shopping at the same time? Your attention is somewhere, but it's probably not where you are.

Mindfulness, in short, is being consciously aware of what you're doing at any given moment. You observe thoughts, feelings, sensations, and without judgment. Of course there are other definitions, primarily derived from Buddhism, but this will work for now.

Why I Needed Mindfulness ///

When I used to train, my thoughts were always on the future. I was wrapped up in goals, both in the short term and the long term.

For the short term, it was all about progressive overload: Last Wednesday, I hit all my reps on squats; today, I'll increase the weight. Next time… In the longer term, I was obsessed with how much I was going to be able to lift at the end of a specific training block, or how much muscle I might gain. Through it all I was worried about how to fit in all of my sessions with a busy schedule.

My mind was never in the present. I rarely focused on what I was doing. Sure, I recorded my sets and reps and made sure to progress, but after a point, training wasn't much fun anymore, and I couldn't figure out why.

The same goes for my relationship with food. I rarely took the time to actually enjoy my meals. Rather, I normally made something quick, wolfed it down, and got back to work. It was especially evident when I'd go out to eat with friends, and I scarfed my meal down very quickly without much thought or focus.

Around the holidays it was even worse. I used to become a real glutton then, embracing the challenge to see how much food I could cram into myself. I pigged out merely because I could, only to feel like a sack of crap afterward. I wasn't proud of this.

Finding Mediation ///

I was first exposed to meditation and mindfulness a few years ago, but never gave it much thought until the summer of 2012. Life and work were moving so quickly, and I found that when I tried to relax, it just wasn't happening.

I began to read more and more about how to meditate, and incorporate mindfulness into my life. I finally made the decision to begin meditating for two reasons:

  • I needed peace: I needed to learn how to relax and not become overwhelmed. My mind was constantly racing, and as a result, I tended to neglect things like sleep, time away from work, and even casual social outings such as coffee or lunch with friends.
  • I needed a challenge: Everything I read about meditation said that sitting in silence for longer than two minutes was difficult. It's true; meditation is hard as hell. The goal is to focus on something—it can be your breath, a candle flame, a thought, or whatever else—and only that one thing. This isn't as simple as it sounds. The first thing I experienced was the challenge. Later I experienced the peace.
Coming into Focus ///

I decided to start with just five minutes daily—no matter what. I did it this way to build a habit. All the folks who claimed this as challenging were right. Sitting alone in silence isn't that hard physically, but mentally, it's tough. It's normal for our minds to race while we're awake, and when I finally sat and paid attention to just how fast my mind was moving, it was a bit startling.

However, there was a physical challenge, too. It was super hard for me to sit still. Many times in the beginning, I just said screw this! and quit after a few minutes. But I kept at it, figuring it was all going someplace better. Soon five minutes turned to 10, and 10 to 20.

My initial experience was fraught with frustration because I thought that I was doing something wrong. However, I wasn't. The goal of meditation, I came to realize, is to be aware of your thoughts—not to get upset when your mind wanders, but slowly to bring yourself back to the center focus.

For me, this was breathing. I counted my breaths, trying to get as close to I could to 100. I read that once you can focus and hit 100 breaths without wavering, amazing changes have occurred in your brain. However, I never could make it to that. It was more like 20; then I'd think about sex, or eating, or work. Once I realized I'd gotten distracted, I'd accept it, forgive myself, and start over.

I only had a few inspiring and moving moments when I was meditating, but after a month or so, I began to experience some cool benefits outside of the silent sitting. For one, my ability to focus on every training session improved. I could focus squarely on each set, and eventually each rep. My relationship with food was also different, because I was suddenly more aware of the intense flavors of the food I ate, as well as their unique textures.

Outside of training, I noticed an improvement in my focus during social interactions. I cut out unnecessary triggers, such as feeling the need to pull out my smart phone and check social media when an awkward moment of silence occurred. There was no more anxiousness about other things going on later in the day. I was completely focused and content on the current moment and whoever I was with.

The Mindful Diet ///

Imagine if you paid attention to everything you ate without judgment. I'm not talking about labeling foods here. But can you remember what your last meal was? Can you remember if you enjoyed it, or just ate it because you needed food?

Many of us who are into fitness are busy, and we tend to eat in a structured manner according to our goals. This is completely fine, but the next time you have more than 20 minutes for an actual meal, I have a challenge for you. Eliminate all distractions around you. This means no electronics, and preferably, be by yourself.

Sit in a room that's well lit and away from visual distraction. Take your time to savor the meal. Focus on how the food tastes and how it makes you feel. It's preferable to do this with a meal that you spent time preparing, and not something from a restaurant. Try to do this at least 1-2 meals per week.

This approach also works if you struggle to gain control of your eating. Instead of pigging out like normal, just eat regular-sized portions and place all of your attention on the company, the setting, and the sensations you feel during the meal. Make the food you eat secondary to the experience.

The Mindful Training Session ///

The next time you train, make a point to focus on every aspect of your training as it happens. Pay attention during your warm up, through every contraction of every set, and notice the moment your body begins allowing fatigue to set in. Feel the muscles resisting and tensing under the heavy loads, and notice how they become tight and quiver as your energy levels drop.

Don't worry about how your next set will feel, or what you're doing once you leave the gym. Follow your workout log, and give every movement your undivided attention. How does the pencil feel in your hand as you record your sets and reps? What does the weight of the heavy barbell feel like in your hands as it slips away on the last rep of a heavy set of deadlifts? How does each leg extension feel as the blood fills your quadriceps? Pay attention to the burn of lactic acid on the 20th rep.

Soak it all in. If you can push your attention to these details, it will be a lot harder to let your mind wander, as it sometimes does when we go through the motions. Then record everything in your workout log.

If this sounds slow, that's a good thing. After all, all we ever have is this moment. Take the time to enjoy it.


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AJDBODHI

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Awesome article, people can get so much out of this if they are not thinking about the next article they are going to read while reading this one.
I will be looking at more of your work now, JC DEEN.

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JCDF

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true that. glad you liked it!

Mar 12, 2013 5:02pm | report
sxyfitmomwife

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sxyfitmomwife

I thought about Mediation about a month ago but didn't try it or look into it. now I will. thanks

Mar 11, 2013 10:45pm | report
 
JCDF

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Yup - I've also written about it a bit more here: http://zenhabits.net/build-strength/

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JohnHardesty

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JohnHardesty

I'm definitely going to try to incorporate this into my life. I think I'm pretty focused during my training sessions, but the other 23 hours of the day could use some adjustments. Great stuff JC.

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JCDF

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Thanks, John. Glad you liked it

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Ive always felt that my sessions improve when i was present and focused my attention in the present moment. When I go to the gym , i put my phone on airplane mode for less distractions and out my attention on whatever im doing . I've been meditating for a little while now and its tough to get started but once you do its amazing . Great article man i completely agree with everything you said here

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OperationLive

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OperationLive

Thank you so much for this-- seriously awesome. I have two new goals for myself:
--Spend five minutes first-thing when I wake up to meditate before going to the gym for my morning lift. Do this every day to form the habit.
--Sunday morning (my rest day in my current competition training): Prepare breakfast and spend 20 minutes focusing on the meal.
I'm going to practice this for 2 months and blog about my results on www.operationlive.com.
I've been wanting to learn to meditate too. Feel like this article was the world's way of telling me to start! :) xoxoSarah

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Egleaves22

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Egleaves22

Great article, hopefully you were able to get others to at least try meditation.
I've had to write a few research papers on meditation in a few of my courses. This article was about concentration meditation (yes there are several types), and 15 minutes is about the magic number to get the most "bang for your buck" according to most research. But the benefits are extraordinary and go beyond just helping you focus. I'd really encourage everyone to go on google scholar, pub med, or somewhere similar and look up some of the studies.

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Burninsteel

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I really enjoyed this article. I have done a few searches on google to find some instructional cd/dvd for beginners. Any suggestions?

Mar 13, 2013 10:56am | report
 
JCDF

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yah, try this article: http://zenhabits.net/build-strength/

also, I've written about it a fair amount on my personal site: http://jcdeen.com/category/meditation/

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matsve

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matsve

Really like the article!

I have been doing 20minutes of Meditation for a couple of months now, and i totally agree with that your training sessions become alot more enjoyable! :D

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let's try this out :) Thanks for posting this, very interesting!

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reading this article made me start to think about how much of my life is spent in a daze, just going through the motions to reach some place that has been perpetually out of reach instead of actually focusing on what's happening around me. This is something that I'm definitely going to try

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GWATER

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GWATER

Focus in the gym= greater Intensity= Reaching optimal results. Like JohnHardesty I focus in the gym and on certain things at work, but not in other activities.

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CrusherB

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I've meditated since I was 8, and it's something I'd recommend to anyone, in any situation, regardless of environment or goals. Just one question: how can you zone out if you're attempting to break your own limits?

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I've meditated since I was 8, and it's something I'd recommend to anyone, in any situation, regardless of environment or goals. Just one question: how can you zone out if you're attempting to break your own limits?

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Wonderful article,i totally related myself to it!

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njones622

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I am SO glad you were able to convey this in a way that it could be well received no matter what ones practice is. I often talk about "spiritual bodybuilding". People look at me like I"m crazy, or think I sound hoki.. :) I do affirmations with every rep or make my cardio a meditation..or do a running meditation, etc. So to hear someone else talk about mindfullness in their fitness is fantastic! Thank you, thank you, thank you!

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I will add that strategy to my training , Ty for this article

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Wow this Is Great! I'm Going To Try It! Definitely An Angle I Was Looking To Get Perspective On.

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Thank you so much for such a useful article. Like you I encountered meditation a few years ago, it really helped me slow down and find some peace at the time but I sadly fell out if it. Mind plasticity is something I've been researching and mindfulness is such a force for good its actually humbling. I'm going to be a long term practioner for sure based definitely around these principles and the life time benefits. Thank you bro.

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I've been wanting to start meditating by doing yoga for a while now. Just haven't fully commited to it yet, but I know it would do me a lot of good... Read this article while having the TV going on in the background... Seems like our culture as a whole is becoming less and less focused.

Great article thanks!

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Thank you for this article. I need to be more mindful of my eating habits!!

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i will change

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