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![]() By: David Robson
Writing about the achievements and extraordinarily influential life of former IFBB International President, fitness movement creator, and internationally respected and admired bodybuilding ambassador and diplomat, Ben Weider, can be rather difficult and daunting. He's had a profound influence not only on the creating, legitimizing and standardizing of one of the world's most popular sports, bodybuilding, but on the lives of many millions of people worldwide who have benefited though the industries he has evolved and the act of getting and staying in optimal physical shape he, along with his brother Joe, popularized back in the mid-'40s. It is hard to know where to begin and end. One man who strongly benefited from Ben Weider's influence is Dr. Robert Goldman, an internationally respected health and fitness advocate, pioneer and trendsetter.
In using Mr. Weider's ethical, personal integrity and business models as benchmarks for success, Dr. Goldman has attained recognition as a leader in anti-aging and regenerative medicine and doping control in the international sports arena, and respected member and International Medical Commission Chairman of the IFBB (International Federation of Bodybuilders). Given both Mr. Weider and Dr. Goldman possessed, early on, an unwavering passion for progressing the bodybuilding and health and fitness fields it is fitting they, along with scores of devoted IFBB members worldwide, should form an alliance that would ultimately have bodybuilding recognized and formalized in over 180 IFBB member countries. In the 1940's bodybuilding and indeed the fitness movement itself were virtually non-existent entities. Enter Ben and Joe Weider. For over 60 years these gentlemen worked tirelessly and doggedly to progress bodybuilding and fitness, to have these pursuits recognized as keys to optimal health and areas within which an individual could transform themselves physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. They succeeded above and beyond all expectations to where bodybuilding became the world's most practiced activity and the fitness lifestyle became increasingly sought after as the surest way to permanent good health. With the passing of Ben Weider on Friday October 17, 2008, the world lost a man who, with his great pioneering spirit and unrelenting pursuit for excellence, touched the lives of many and permanently changed physical culture for the better. The mark he left on the world is unmatched, his legacy vast.
Through those lucky enough to have been mentored by him, this legacy will continue. Dr. Robert Goldman, who first came into contact with Ben Weider as a 14-year-old kid with an interest in physical fitness and precocious athletic abilities, is one man fortunate to have been taught and mentored by Mr. Weider. In the following interview he tells of the profound influence Ben Weider had on him and gives an exclusive insight into the inner workings of organized bodybuilding at the elite level.
![]() Click Image To Enlarge.Ben Weider Receiving The Lifetime Achievement Award At The 2008 Arnold Classic.
And this is a sport that wasn't even a sport initially, and that is something else Ben did: he created a brand new sport. How many people in their lifetimes could do that? It's like what we are trying to do here by creating a new professional in the areas of anti-aging and regenerative medicine; trying to create a whole new paradigm in medicine, a whole new specialty. Well, Ben, in essence, created a whole new sport, which became global and had its own World Championships. We have around 1,400 championships a year in terms of competitions. Some sports federations will have 10, 20, 50 and 100 up to 500 competitions, not 1,400 competitions a year! It is quite a remarkable feat.
When you are talking to a translator or to someone from a different culture they don't have the same sense of humor or get things the same way because of the language barrier. Well, Ben had a very good cadence and manner, including the speed at which he spoke, and an eloquent way in which to speak to these people; the way he would look them in the eye and shake their hand, how he would actually greet these different leaders and sports officials, make presentations and introduce different thoughts to them. This is something I learned from Ben and have used very effectively now for many years in my work with the IFBB, which has branches in over 180 countries. And my World Anti-Aging Academy Of Medicine is now in over 100 nations.
![]() Click Image To Enlarge.Dr. Robert Goldman Presenting A Lecture At A World Anti Ageing Academy Of Medicine Conference.
He had a really great understanding of how to not only relate to the individual to make them feel important, special and respected but he would be able to engender that same type of loyalty and following among his protégés like Rafael Santonja, and all the others he basically mentored and grew. We were all kids when he began with us. Rafael is around my age and was in his late 20's when he first made contact with Ben. Ben has known me since I was a teenager, not personally but through mail correspondence. Imagine a guy who is running these large corporations, these strong entities, and you get letters from these kids. I wrote Ben a letter when I was 12 and not only do I get a response from him, I get a personalized letter, and not one but dozens of letters, after my again making contact with him. It is hard to believe somebody in his position actually sitting down and writing in response to my letters and actually answering what I asked him. And he probably did this for thousands of people. That attention to detail was one of his fortes and secrets of success because he groomed people and he would filter out people like myself who would go to the ends of the earth for him. Whatever he asked, we would do. And his requests were never inappropriate, unreasonable or unfair. At least in my dealings with him as a volunteer for the IFBB and interactions he was always very fair and very logical in his approach. He has reasons behind everything. And he believed people had the right to agree to disagree. That is why during the IFBB Congress we would debate things, not in a hostile manner but in a fashion to where people were able to get their thoughts across. One of the things I would always enjoy and was always impressed with were the two parts of the World Championships that were not part of these Championships that he in essence created, but were based on a governmental or parliament proceeding. And this was the first ever Council-meeting where each of the members of the Executive Council ran a continent like North America, South America, Asian, Oceania and Europe and there would be 12 to 18 of us at these meetings.
Those meetings were actually my two favorite parts of the championships, even more so than the sporting aspect. I'm not sure if others share that same thought, but procedural and protocol matters were, I knew, the only way to build something up to create longevity, and Ben was a master at it. And he was so good at bringing all of these people together. This was at a time when you had the Six-Day War, conflicts in the Middle East and in Africana; you had the differences between the different countries. The Europeans can be quite hostile towards one another because of hundreds of years of conflict.
The environment at the time had Israelis against Arabs, and different tribes of Africa against one another - the same thing with different European races. His bringing together of these people really was quite remarkable.
What we could all ascertain was that he treated everyone that he met with respect. But I did have conversation with him on that (his political views). What I found was that he was more of a global thinker and not one of prejudice; he may have been Jewish by descent but he fully respected you whether you were Muslim, Christian or whatever. Those prejudices that people tend to harbor just weren't part of his persona. He was very proud to be who and what he was, but not to the point where it would decrease his respect or admiration of anyone else from any other race, creed or religion. And that was something that I learned from him and adapted in the same way. It was a real talent that he had and he tried really hard to engender that in the leaders he was grooming. Rafael Santonja, who has taken over as the first new president in 60 years, is doing an unbelievable job and was like another son to Ben. Ben groomed him and trained him very well just like he trained his own son Eric to continue the Weider dynasty.
There were certain things that he would feel very strongly about where he would voice his concerns, but even though he ran a very tight ship where no one ever ran against him as International President, he was fair. Then again nobody ever ran against me as World Medical Chairman. If you are liked and respected by your colleagues you retain your position. So he was a very strong leader, but I can't see where he was dictatorial in the way that he ran the Federation.
But I would do the same thing with our medical federation. If you are not pleased with who and what we are, fine. Go then, but you are not coming back. He demanded that type of loyalty.
His energy and drive and extreme personality in terms of his passion was unmatched. He once called me and said, "Listen, I'm coming to Chicago and I have this very important meeting with Napoleonic scholars." All these other guys were professors and doctors, some pretty heavy dudes coming into this thing.
Getting to watch him with his level of interest, passion and attention to detail was nothing short of remarkable, as he came in and completely dominated this meeting. Not because of a loud voice, but because of intelligence, preparation and data. This was the way he attacked things, with great ferocity. And this is the only way people can achieve anything global in life - to have that same quality. It's the same thing Arnold had. When Arnold came to America, one of the first things he said was that he wanted to be chairman of the President's Council on Physical Fitness and Sport.
Then I ended up serving as Special Advisor during his term. And he did more on the President's Council than anyone in that Council's history with that same type of focus. And Ben and Joe saw that in him. They were great talent scouts, whether in sport or elsewhere.
That was mostly Joe. Ben was working more at the Federation level, the business side - and with the mentoring of folks such as myself. Ben had the same impact on Jim Manion who was, before his initial meeting with Ben, a gym owner. And now he has represented and acted as President of the American NPC and IFBB Professional Division for many years.
So, again, his attention to detail and attention to the humanistic side of people and how they are affected is something he was very good at. Another thing he did that I did in my federations - that I think is very important - was to recognize people in some capacity or another. So he would have different awards to present, and various certificates, a Distinguished Service Award, the Oscar State Memorial Award, the Achievement Medal, the Gold Order and so on. He modeled this a bit off the Olympic movement but also in knowing how important it was for sports officials to be recognized for their hard work.
It is important to be recognized in this fashion. Another thing that was interesting and unique to our Federation, that is not really being done much anymore, is a gift giving ceremony at the end of the congress, where members of different delegations would bring different gifts from all over the world to present to members of the executive. These were some amazing gifts: for example, portraits that were made out of gold leaf, beautiful gilded boxes: things that were native to a particular country. And I would hang out because the things Ben didn't want I would try to obtain. One time he was given a map of Africa, almost two and a half feet high, with each of the countries of Africa represented with the skin of an animal native to that country. Upon receiving it Ben told me, "This has got your name written all over it."
Once the Russians brought a huge bowl that had to be almost two feet in diameter filled with caviar. How they got it on the plane and brought it there in one piece I will never know.
I have attended almost all of the Championships over the past 20-plus years. Some years I was the only American there. And in Bahrain I will probably be the only one again. In Burma I was the only one. The only one I missed was because there were too many conflicts in the Middle East and I felt it would be unsafe to go and perhaps endanger others with my presence. A funny story is regarding one of the Championships in Izmir, Turkey. On the way to those Championships I had some filming to do in California with some TV shows. When I finally get over to Izmir I get there very late at night and there are a bunch of nervous officials greeting me, and Paul Chua (Executive Assistant to the IFBB President Rafael Santonja) says, "All the Americans have already left."
There was a metal detector at the front of the hotel as this was very rare event. I say, "I'm not going anywhere." It turned out to be a great Championship but a little unnerving in certain parts. And these were the kinds of places we would go; we would get full government support and they would be terrific experiences for everybody. In the 1990s I met the Prime Minister of Malaysia, Mahathir Mohamad who provided $3.4 million US Dollars for our bodybuilding Championships. They even had a parade where there was a rickshaw for every athlete, for over 65 countries. And the Prime Minister was at the Championships.
Australia's Paul Grant was a Mr. Universe and actually instrumental in establishing the Australian Olympic Drug Testing Standards with my assistance back in the 1980s. (Abdel Hamid) El Guindy was a bodybuilding champion from Egypt. If you look at the executive council they were mostly all former bodybuilders. Rafael was a former bodybuilder. Paul Chua was not but he was very interested in sports. What Ben would do is get these people in the different countries and have them work through their local Government for their local sports federations to eventually work their way up. Then Ben would make trips to these countries and that would provide impetus to get to some of the governmental officials, before courting the competition. And because we were under the radar we presented the sport as being attractive to these people.
We ended up having one of the best Championships in Kuala Lumpur in 1990, all with government support. The government completely sponsored it; you just couldn't do something like with without that kind of support.
And Ben would rely on his lieutenants to go deep to organize several weeks in advance of Championships. He would make sure everything was in place and he would guide the people. And he did all of this out of Montreal.
And also it is not expensive; bodybuilding is something people can do all by themselves. Athletes in many of these countries didn't have equipment like we see today; they would use two cans filled with cement and a bar. So anybody could begin to do bodybuilding on his or her own, so even in China and these other countries athletes who couldn't afford to be in other sports could afford to start bodybuilding and could enter a competition.
And it provides opportunities for a lot of the competitors to visit other countries, who before may never have had the opportunity; they wouldn't be allowed to because they couldn't get a visa. But because it was a World Championships they could. These are not athletes who were on the Olympic scene, involved in the more standardized sports where they have the rights of other athletes. The first time I ever left the country was to attend the IFBB World Championships in 1986 and it opened a whole new world for me. Many Americans don't even travel; they are very America-centric. If it wasn't for Ben, who knows when and if I would have ever left the country. On that particular visit I visited Hong Kong and Tokyo. Then every year we would have a World Championships and I would go to whatever part of the world this was held in.
I walk in and the heads of this Malaysian Council are all ex-bodybuilders and they had come through the ranks and now had positions within the Malaysian Olympic Committee. They wanted to say hello as they had heard that I was in town. These were kids I knew as they were starting out as competitors.
When we traveled to different countries we would tell me what battle occurred here and he would go through all the details; what war occurred, what part of the battlefield did what occur on; the names of generals. He could remember everything in astounding detail. I'm talking about world history, not just Napoleonic History. He had a phenomenal knowledge base and a tremendous memory. That kind of quality of selective memory is quite common among people of a similar level of success.
That is where his memory banks were a bit more focused, but of course he knew what was going on in bodybuilding at the competitive level also. I'm sure, early on, this was even more of a focus but his memory was applied more, later on, in the area where he felt he needed to do the most good, which was more in the diplomatic and political arenas. I have one story that I remember as clear as if it were yesterday. We were sitting in their equivalent of the senate of the congress in Katowitz, Poland - a lot of times I would sit next to him as we would often have conversations on medicine and I was like a medical advisor for whenever he had any questions. So the Polish Government was about to present Ben with this beautiful award. Well, we were looking around the room and taking it all in and I posed the question, "How do you feel?" "Damn good," he replied. He was almost childlike, just really happy. It wasn't like, wow I'm getting this it was more like wow this is fun.
Well, they brought out one horrific dish after another, which I could never eat, and I asked Eric, "So does your dad always have this positive attitude?" And he said, "Yes, every day. He would whistle on his way to work and whistle when he came home. He was always in a good mood and would get up each day, excited and ready to go at it." And that was something I think he instilled in Eric. And Ben was very modest even in the way he dressed. Some guys, after reaching enormous financial success, would wear crazy big diamonds and real showy stuff. Ben always dressed in a real European classy manner, with a sweater, nothing gauche and none of this crazy showy stuff. And he lived in a similar house most of his life, as well, and of course he could have afforded any house he wanted. I know Joe liked houses so he bought a whole mess of them, but Ben was always pretty understated in that way. I do know one thing, he always insisted on though, was that he fly first class whenever he was brought into a country as an invited VIP or President. He said this was to be done more so out of respect. It wasn't because he wanted people to spend extra money, it wasn't an ego thing; he was always just very protocol-driven. He is a true diplomat and protocol-driven and that is why we always had all of these different rules and regulations and the constitution of the IFBB.
We were an orphan sport so we always had to be more organized, better run with the proper administration in place. We had to be all of these things to be on a semi-equal footing with all of the other sporting federations. Even though we were, at one time, the sixth largest sporting federation in the world, and had more countries coming to our Championships than all the other federations with more athletes competing in our sport than in other sports, we always had to be so much better just to be on an equal footing.
I was a little embarrassed but he came. Upon entering my offices he walked up to each of these little girls, each around 20 years old, looks them in the eye, shakes their hands and says, "It is a pleasure to meet you." They were just flabbergasted.
And he would truly enjoy being with the bodybuilders and seeing them and getting his picture taken with them. Making time for people and giving them proper respect is something he always did. He would like to make people feel good. The last time I saw Ben at the (2008) Olympia I walked over to him and he was there with a few friends of his. At this time a few people came over and wanted to get their picture taken with him, and he said, "Of course." He didn't really have to do that but, still, he always would with a smile. And he would thank them for taking the picture with him. That was just the way he was. I could notice he was quite protective about something at the time (at the 2008 Mr. Olympia), when I hugged him I knew there was something going on. But he didn't show it. He stood upright and strong; I asked him how he was and he replied, "I'm doing great." A funny thing: when I used to call him I would ask, "How do you feel?" and he would tell me, "Well, I feel with my hands." So I learned to stop asking that. And usually we would tell each other jokes before we would start a regular conversation. Ben would always have a joke for you, so when talking to him you would get the joke of the week. He had a great sense of humor that he would share with others and he was a great storyteller. He was many things to all of us but to me he was like a secondary father and brother and, of course, he was a mentor. Of those who truly understood him and got close to him, the sentiment shared is probably what I am giving to you here.
So Ben finally got the Olympia recognition - and for us it is like "wow, we made it, you've finally pulled it off" - but unfortunately what happened was there was some funny monkey business meeting with the IOC people and there was one very lower level guy who was very jealous of Ben and our movement, and they just did some monkey business voting and the IOC recognition was stripped after Ben had worked so hard to get it. It was very frustrating when that occurred. But I know Rafael is now working diligently to again achieve that goal. In saying that, we have a number of Olympic officials who support bodybuilding. Bodybuilding is really the root of what all athletes do; they all weight train. When I first started training for sport, weight training was a no-no. Well, what athlete today does not weight train? Here is how it works, and we have the same thing in medicine: you come up with a new idea and first people call you crazy, then they try and disprove you and ridicule you, then they copy you, then they call it their own.
![]() Click To Enlarge.Jim Manion, Ben Weider & Dr. Rafael Santonja. "Ben Relied Upon And Trusted The Strength And Leadership Abilities Of Jim Manion Who Is Head Of The Professional Division And All Of American Amateur Bodybuilding, And Head Of The Judges Committee." - Dr. Bob Goldman.
When I first put my report on drugs together for Ben as a teenager, the medical committee asked me what I was doing. I was writing about things that had not come to pass yet - I was writing about the pyschogenic effects of steroids, the psychological effects. These guys said it was all nonsense; all garbage and that I couldn't print it.
A few years later he published it and it became the most popular report ever published in IFBB history (it was backed by over 290 medical references), and all the things I was writing about were proven to be correct. Ben then appointed me as chairman of his commission, and over 20 years later, here we are.
That's big news. If bodybuilder "X" gets caught, nobody really cares. So a lot of that media focus has gone off us and onto the big sports names.
We are adapting the WADA (World Anti Doping Agency) code; we are doing what we can to stay in compliance with the powers that be within the Olympic Federation rules. Being in all these regional Olympic Games we want to maintain that position.
It would have been even greater if bodybuilding were one of those competitive sports. This past week we had the first Asian Beach Games, and there is the World Games. And these are all regional Olympic championships; bodybuilding is a competitive sport.
He had some interesting aspects to his personality but he was always a great mentor and there was always a lot of learn. And he also had a great sense of when to exit from certain projects or industries; when the Weider brothers sold their fitness equipment company to a large conglomerate group who bought into Icon, they sold it at the perfect time.
Ben instilled that good sense of sharp intellect and timing into his son Eric Weider. Eric has the intelligence and class that his dad had with a higher education level because Ben was self-schooled and Eric was highly trained as well as coming from a privileged family and attending good institutions. Ben was never egotistical and neither was Eric. Individuals that achieve at high levels can become very immodest and full of themselves; that is one thing Ben was not; same thing with Eric. They are both very modest about who they are. Ben was still like the little boy from Canada with the excitement that he shared, but was also a class leader. When you reach that level, not everybody is going to be fond of you.
Joe would only rarely come to a World Championships and usually only to look to see who will be the future professionals coming up the ranks. But one was a free flowing artist and one was a corporate CEO.
But you can't make everyone happy. Ben would try to keep people happy but was very politically savvy, whereas Joe was more artistic and he would make some errors in judgement. Ben was the one who everybody took very seriously.
So there was a strong bond and respect and I never detected any jealousy between the two. Sometimes between brothers in such powerful positions you will get jealousy. They may not have agreed on everything, because Joe, for example, may have wanted to go off on a more artistic mode, which politically might not have been the best thing to do, and Ben would say they couldn't do this. He would still try to make his brother happy but would explain that that was not the way they should go in a particular situation.
There are many bodybuilders involved at the professional level but only a small handful that can make a substantial living from it. But there are a lot of other industries along those lines like personal training, gym ownership, and nutritional supplements - all the auxiliary businesses, which the Weider's were involved in as well.
They don't have companies like Toyota and Mercedes Benz to fund the competition, like they have in other sports like tennis and golf. The difference is a big company in the bodybuilding world is worth 100-200 million whereas in the other world there are companies doing much more.
They (the IFBB) are doing the best they can and are paying a lot more than the thousand bucks they used to give to the Mr. Olympia winner. Even if you adjust for inflation it is still a far cry from what it was.
Everybody will look to the leader and blame them for what they don't have. All you can do is the best you can, modify the environment to make it better for people and achieve good things while realizing that you are never going to make everyone happy. Those who have a good level of intelligence and understanding of the way the world really works don't feel they should be entitled to everything simply because they are on the planet. I have experienced much of the things you refer to from parties who are either jealous or angry, or dissatisfied and unhappy with what the Weider's have done or not done. By seeing what they have gone through with this it allowed me to see that this was part of the right to passage. If you are not doing anything in life, nobody really cares about you either way. There is no emotion involved. You are nothing because people don't care. Guys like this, who have achieved great things, are going to attract people who are upset, or who agree or do not agree with them. I have people who don't like me, which I have never met and have never even spoken to, simply because of my position. There is a level of jealousy that goes with it.
Because I understood the value of what he was trying to engender and the doors he was opening, it was up to me to take advantage of the opportunity and create new things. So to me that response was representative of the kind of person that usually makes negative comments, those who have not made it to a place in life where they would like to be. They are not the ones working seven days a week, 24 hours a day, sacrificing like these guys (the Weider's) did to make things happen. And even after they reach a level of success, they keep working. Once Joe and Ben had reached a certain level where their power base was so strong, they didn't have to do anything but sit on a yacht somewhere. Yet they kept working. And I asked Ben, "What was it like when you sold your first company and didn't really have to do anything again." He told me that nothing had changed and that he just went back and did what he felt was important work, where his passion lay. He may have slept a little bit better at night but he just got straight back to work, because that was who he was. That is what those guys were made of. They were out there to change the world and it wasn't about the money: it was about change and paradigm shifting and making a difference, about cleaning out the chimney and creating a new industry and a new sport. What an opportunity for someone to have, to literally make your mark on the world. Legacy for guys like these is everything. What kind of legacy am I leaving behind? What am I creating in this world to make it better, more interesting, more exciting that will affect peoples lives for many years to come? To honor his achievements I once brought Ben in to lecture at an American Academy of Anti Aging Medicine World Congress meeting in the mid-'90s, but I didn't know how to recognize him. I mean this guy was my mentor and I was like, "What can I do for him?" So I developed a one-time award - and it was the only one he had ever received - called the Pioneer Award, and that is truly what he was: a pioneer. So I presented him with this one-of-a-kind hand-carved piece of art styled into a trophy.
You will have people that think the world of you and have great admiration for you and you will have people that don't like you. I think if you get international feedback I think the good comments you get about Ben will far, far outweigh the bad from the few people who are upset with him. There are people that idolize him, especially in the Far East and Middle East. He was as close to a God as you could get. People actually idolized him. And there is nobody out there creating another federation; there have been some but they have gone. The IFBB is it. For this sport it is the federation, all the way.
I went into a meeting and there was a heated debate on dope control because he had just disqualified a number of athletes; we were being very strict, as is always the case, on dope control and we were to have a meeting with a series of professional athletes. Before he entered the meeting Ben said, "They may say some things that will get you upset. I want you to relax; I don't want you to get angry. Control yourself." I don't lose control anyway, that's just not the way I am, but Ben warned me anyway. So we enter this meeting and partway through it was discovered that one of the athletes had hidden a tape recorder. All of a sudden Ben just really exploded at this woman, which was out of character for him. Anyway, after the meeting I said to Ben, "So this is what you meant by staying calm?" But in general he was always very even-tempered. There were times where he would get a bit emotional about things, but that was because this was his passion. But for the most part he was always quite classy in his approach and tempered, but when he felt strongly about something he would vigorously defend what he felt was most important to the Federation. He was very protective of the Federation. One time he got quite angry while at the first World Championships in Japan, in 1986. I only had one suit from since I was a kid. So when we got to Tokyo they gave us all sweat suits. I was like, "Wow, this is great, free sweat suits, terrific." That night there was an important dinner so I show up wearing my little IFBB sweat suit. And as I'm walking down the hall everybody is applauding each person upon their entering. Of course everybody is dressed in their full IFBB suits with tie jacket and everything. I stroll in wearing a sweat suit. I stand next to Ben and he looks me over and says, "Never again." After that I bought some appropriate clothing. So I went from the worst dressed to one of the best dressed. It is still one of the funniest stories we tell amongst ourselves because now I dress in a very classy fashion. The IFBB Executive Council laughed about it back then because they personally saw Ben give me the look of death.
I was quite young when I took over the Medical Commission - still in my 20s - and being an athlete myself I really didn't look like a doctor, but like one of the bodybuilders. So I go into an area they call the Secretariat, where you go to collect your VIP credentials. Upon entering this area to collect my credentials I saw a group of Japanese guys all with cigarettes hanging out of their mouths looking tough and looking me up and down. Then they physically try to throw me out of this room. I said, "No, I'm here to pick up my credentials." They don't understand and continue to usher me out, thinking I'm one of the bodybuilding competitors. So I say my name and out of their mouths come the cigarettes along with the apologies: "I'm sorry sir." It was like one of those funny Asian movies. Everything was protocol driven but sometimes you could get confused with who is what, where and how.
He created a culturally new paradigm in health, fitness, bodybuilding and weight training, the importance of nutritional supplements, diet, and the importance of looking at the whole mind/body aspect. So Ben has literally created a whole dynasty way beyond the Weider family: he has created an international family of disciples in over 180 countries, of people who are now going to continue what he started from zero. You start with one country and you build. And now we have a really powerful Federation that will continue to grow, we have a sport that has new divisions growing all of the time - women's fitness and classic bodybuilding being newer ones - and he built this whole thing out of air. So he has left behind this fantastic legacy but even more important, what Ben has done is touch lives. When somebody asks me, "Who is the person most responsible for who you are today?" I tell them it is because of Ben Weider. I'm now trying to do what he did for others. I was fortunate to have great parents; my mom and dad were from very simple beginnings but we were very close. But in terms of my education and position in the world it is all because of Ben. If you ask Rafael or any of these guys, if you really think about it, it's really because of him regarding where they are in life. If there weren't any Ben Weider, their lives would be completely different and nowhere near as far ahead as they are today.
I was so lucky to have this guy in my life for so long, to meet him at such a young age. What a gift. At the recent Olympia he was onstage giving awards out and addressing the crowd. I got to give him a hug for the last time and to look in his eyes.
And, as I told you before, he literally thanked people for having their picture taken with him. This guy was a class act right across the board. At his age he did not have to do these sorts of things - to take time out to greet everybody. But that's Ben, right to the end. And I was really happy to see that both he and Joe were at the Olympia together, and Ben opening the competition, and onstage with all the winners, congratulating them. What a great exit.
And our goal is to have our sport recognized at Olympic level, to continue to open new opportunities for the athletes and members of the Federation, and continue the great work that Ben did.
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